I work in a sub shop and one of our regular customers asked me for my number. I didn't really want to give it to him but I did. I dont regret it since he's really sweet. Anyways he wants to go out but I am not ready. Im 20 going on 21 shortly and he's 26. He pretty much established and I am not. That is one of the main reasons why I am not ready to date. Another is me and my ex broke up a year ago. He was my high school sweetheart and so dating again is kind of awkward to me. Especially since this guy seems like he wants to jump right into a relationship already. I tend to fond it easier to date if we were friends first. But like I said, im 20 still living with parents, in college, no car yet =/ I was pretty close to getting one but I started helping out family financially and screwed myself over. I just want to get myself together first before I start dating but dont want him to think I dont like him. He's very persistent and I have come up with several excuses and lies to avoid talking to him more and hanging out and now I am out of excuses. I want to tell him the truth now but he probably will think its just another excuse... HELP =/ like I said I really do like this guy.
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I think you should def. go out and give it a go, at least one time, because you never know, if you don't you may miss out on the chance to just see what could happen? Life goes kind of crazy and fast, but you can't use things like school and no car as an excuse, just give it one date, and if things aren't what you'd like them to be, then tell it to him straight, I'm sure he'd appreciate at least having a chance you know? We all just want a chance and sometimes we need to.1