I'm 49 soon. If a young guy wants to date me, is it only because of sex? or is there a tiny little possibility that he might actually like me, and want to have a relationship, perhaps even marriage? am i being unrealistic like my daughter says?
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So, he is 20 years younger than you, at the least?
Well, sure, you might look 10-15 years younger than your age, but that is gonna catch up with you. If you're trying to think long term... lets fast forward 15 years. This 20 something is now late 30 something and you are 65. You are going to want to slow down at that point, but he will still be leading life full speed. That just isn't going to work.
Maybe he has deluded himself into thinking this could go long term, you also clearly have, but this just doesn't seem realistic in the slightest.0