I know that every girl is different, regardless of race or nationality. However I've heard from many people that Asians (more specifically Koreans) are more loyal and committing than western girls generally speaking.
Here's my story: I met a Korean girl on IP and she is still in school. She goes to a private "all girl" academy (stereotypical Asian school girl) and she stays there from 7am - 10pm Monday through saturday. Obviously she has very little free time but we have been skyping almost every single day from the day we met.
I know she likes black guys and she also likes Americans as well as the military. Naturally I thought maybe it was just lust but she's a virgin and she's never been in a relationship (given her schedule and female only school). I also considered maybe she wanted to use me as a free pass to the US but she already has plans to join the airforce and gain her citizenship by way of military service.
She is always reminding me how badly she wants to meet me and how great of a person I am. Despite the time and distance, she is loyal and committed to waiting for me and doing what she needs to do for us to be together. Not to mention she spends all the little free time she has skyping me.
The thing is, we've only been talking for 3 weeks. I've ruled out possibilities of her using me. I've also ruled out her "fetishes" as being a motivator. She is very goal driven to make things happen between us and discusses/plans all possibilities with me daily. She never mentions"if" always "when."
Obviously she is interested but this is all new me. Usually girls are more cautious and very hard to read. I've always had trouble reading girls but she makes all of her intentions clear. I guess I'm just not used to that degree of trust? I'm torn between thinking whether she's trying to use me for something or maybe she's never been exposed to assholes given the fact that she's been sheltered in an all girl/busy schedule thus she trusts more easily?
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1. I don't think she is trying to use you. Korean girls usually don't do that.
2. I think she lacks experience with assholes, yes, so her dreams are high and her hopes are high as well.
3. I also think that she might be looking for a way to break through her sheltered life, rebel a little bit, you know? And she's doing that by skyping with you, showing interest. Because the korean people I know would mostly date koreans. So I think she is wanting to rebell against her sheltered, protected, regulated world.0