I'm almost 18. So throughout high school I have been friendzoned over 10 times, 7 of those were this year. Not one was willing to get a chance to know me. I'm not pretty and a little overweight, buy I think I'm a good person. I've never done anything with a guy due to the fact I've never had a boyfriend. Am I doing something wrong? I try to be nice and unintentionally flirt, also I don't try to seen desperate. I don't know I'm ready to give up. How do I stop getting thrown into the friendzone?
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Highschool is a time of extreme shallowness... and with the media/advertising showing us guys constant pictures of fit, good looking girls... a lot of the highschool guys don't realise its not all about looks.
So just keep studying and focus on school, there will come a time after school that it will pick up and you will wonder why you worried.
Also what GrowStrong said is true, dressing nice, exercising and generally looking after yourself is a major turn on for guys, the same as it is for girls. If you look nice and have a generally good outlook on life it will attract more "good guys". Trust me you want someone who also dresses nice and looks after themselves because they will have a happy life and thus make you the better for it:)
If that all makes sense.1