I saw her picture. It really kills me to not be physically attracted to her. If I had magical powers, I would snap my fingers just to make myself at least somewhat physically attracted to her, but I can't. We have so much in common and like I said, she seems into me. I don't want to lead her on anymore than I already have.
What should I do? Should I tell her this, that I only see her as a friend? If so, how without hurting her feelings? Or should I just keep my mouth shut and keep talking to her like normal?
Most Helpful Girl
If i was that girl i would want to be naturally friend zoned like you mentioned rather than being told you are bot interested because that seems a bit harsh. I think time and some distance would help with separating from her so she doesn't think you are leading her on0
Most Helpful Guy
How do you know if she is attracted to you?
If she asks or strongly suggests going out on a date, then you tell her you only see her as a friend. If she asks why you only see her as a friend, then be as tactful as possible. Allow her some space to move on.
By the way, finding a way to reject a person without hurting them (at least a little) is like searching for El Dorado. It doesn't exist. Therefore one can only hope to do it the least painful way, which I believe is to do it quickly and decisively.0