I want to find a balance when going into a date w/a new guy. I want to go in completely neutral. I am becoming a pessimist as I have had so many rotten apples for dates, that it discourages me from even initiating a date w/a guy. Just now a guy cancelled our first date not just once, but twice in 2 days at the last minute. We had no real set plans, but he cancelled very late in the day. I was extremely disappointed as this guy showed interest in me and of course I had some expectations. How can I date neutrally? I hate being disappointed especially bailed upon and I want it roll off like water off a duck, but also I want to meet new guys and not judge them harshly before I even go out.
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"How can I date neutrally?" -
Don't attach yourself to anyone or any situation good or bad. Know that all things are temporary.
Don't judge anyone or any situation. A rainy day is not a shitty day, simply a rainy day.
If you can do this, then you should be able to date with indifference.1