Whether or not they message you first or you message them first, personally how often do YOU talk to someone when you're dating them?
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I chat with the girl of my dreams about 3-4 times a week. No we're not dating, we're just going out <-- her words.
Anyway, oftentimes she's the one who messages me first, because she's the more talkative one. Sometimes when I feel lonely without her I start the conversation instead. And how often we talk depends a lot on how busy we are. When school starts, our conversations can drop to once a week, or even fewer! But time flies by when you're busy with school haha.1