If you had the chance to hold a dating seminar for the opposite sex, what would you tell them to please STOP doing and what would you tell them to do better?
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i would explain that in most cases, the guys they are dating are going to be thinking of sex the whole time. I'd recommend against doing anything flirty, unless they plan on 'delivering.' Do not be flirty for attention - you already have his attention. It's best to decide before the date whether or not sex is something you are willing to do, and then stick to your decision. If not, don't talk about it other that objectively, don't mention it, don't flaunt it. If sex is something you are interested in, however, talk about it as much as you want. But be aware: talking too freely of sex may deter some guys, as it could come off as too "professional", so you may want to always let him "set the bar" on how dirty the conversation is to be. I. e. don't mention oral sex, anal sex, restraints, whipped cream... etc. Don't mention them unless he does. If there is something you are particularly passionate about, you can try to steer the conversation towards these things, but I wouldn't just come out and say it. Not all guys would be shy about it, but enough are that it is a worthy caution.1