I've been dating this guy for about two months now. He is everything I'm looking for except I'm starting to question if he is gay. He's never been in a serious relationship with a girl and he has yet to make a move on me. The other day I sent a snapchat of me in a bikini and he texted shortly he was jealous I was at the beach. Most guys would comment on the bikini or is that just me. Maybe I'm over thinking things.
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I was Once in a 'strange' relationship with a Gay man... It was Obvious by the way he walked (This guy was femmy), and of course, everything was "Hey, honeyyy." like Drag Queen dialogue. He knew he was gay, Admitted he was Gay, Obvious he was gay, everyone knew he was gay, so no questions asked. He was out of the closet and didn't care who knew it or How he showed it.
However, our relationship was 'Uncanny,' for he was in love with me in his own way. We did some lite touching, even made plans to live together. However, he never would go to my side, for the feelings he had were Not sexual, but Loving, caring ones like I were his----Best Girl friend till the end. And he was very 'Territorial' of me...
One day I caught him in the act with a guy he used to work with. Not pleasant for the "Triangle threesome."
As far as You go, Yes, you have every right to be somewhat suspicious of a guy you've been seeing for awhile.
There are different kinds of Gays in different categories, and from what you are telling me, there just May be a chance he is--------Playing ball on the other side of the fence. People like You who are not familiar with This, have a hard time in Detecting whether they are still in the dark.
Yes, most guys who are Interested would have 'commented on the bikini,' made some kind of 'Compliment' even, but the way I see it, the time that you both have spent with one another, his past history, and still now manly moves nor monitoring, this would raise a red flag with me, as it has with you.
Sit him down and have a talk about Where your relationship is going and how he feels about you. If he says he is only Into you for Friends, then One way or another, sweetie----You're Not his type All way round, and he is Not even looking for a Friends with benefits factor.
Good luck. xx0