I hear a lot of people particularly guys complaining about being friend zoned. I don't believe in the "friend zone" I believe in the "I'm not interested, so keep it moving zone" lol. From my experience, guys put themselves there sometimes. I have had guys that i am not interested in continue to push it and keep asking well can I just be your friend. Even if I say no, then they ask well what's wrong with friends? We can just text from time to time. It's always guys that ask if they can be friends i never offer but I used to accept. So from my perspective, guys put themselves in the friend zone and know a girl does not like them or is not interested but they are determined to prove themselves. There is nothing wrong with trying but you can set yourself up for heartache if you meet one of those girls that will take advantage of you just because she knows you like her a lot. Most of the time try to get with me when I have a boyfriend or had a break up but when i'm single nobody seems interested lol. and for some reason they get jealous. Word of advice: Stop going after girls with boyfriends, girls that just broke up and are vulnerable, and girls that tell you they are not interested. Even if she offers to just be friends, if she does not seem to want to get to know you on a deeper level for possibly more than friendship, REMOVE YOURSELF from the friend zone. You do have that power lol. So what does everyone think? Who is responsible for being and staying in the friend zone yourself or the friend zoner? Why are people so mad about something the can change as much as you want to be with a person isn't it better to just walk away?
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The friendzone is just a comforting lie guys (and dorm girls) place themselves so it makes it easier to deal with rejection.1