So I've been hanging out with this girl and I really like her but I feel like I'm the only one putting in any effort to get together with her. She never texts me first, every time we've hung out is because I've asked her if she wanted to, and I feel like I'm the only one trying to get to know her. So as posted above, should I keep trying?
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Definitely keep trying. If a girl isn't interested, she won't hang out with you. It's very simple. As far as you being the first to text and ask a guy out, many girls feel that this is the way it should be in the beginning stages. It's classier for the guy to do the pursuing because there is such a thin line for how much is too much when it comes to the girl contacting the guy. If you like her, keep doing what you're doing. She wouldn't be hanging out with you if she didn't like you.
Also, if you guys get more serious, where you've hung out a bunch and are getting comfortable, she'll definitely start calling/texting you first and asking you to hang out. It's just the beginning stage and lots of girls are taught to not chase guys.0