I wouldn't ever think of saying anything hurtful to my girl. I honestly don't care. I just want to know if any other girls are like this or if this happens to anyone else? I don't even do anything. She messes up and has much more mistakes.
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She sounds like this Straw boss, this big mouth Control freak, that just because you're the 'Nice guy,' you're also her---Fall guy. She takes advantage of your kindness, Mistakes your Kindness for weakness, your loving and caring manner in which she is treated, which BTW, is probably like a Queen on her high horse throne, and she finds that being Disrespectful and demeaning to you, gives this little show pony More Reins And Reign to Continue down the Bossy bridal path.
Time to turn this little pony in another direction and start Tightening these Reins. If you stand for this, you will continue to Stoop for whatever poop she decides to throw your way in the future. It has to stop, or if you ever decide to walk down the aisle some day, she will be doing all of the Leading from---This day forward.
Along with her Actions and antics, Will come the 'Bad words,' but if you don't stand your ground, Having a bit of some 'Word' yourself to this One, she will Eternally go on with her Weed whack ways, and always end up having----The last word.
Good luck. xx0