What's your number one deal breaker for a relationship?

What's your number one deal breaker for a relationship?

  • drugs/smokes
    44% (14)41% (11)42% (25)Vote
  • virginity/saving themselves
    9% (3)7% (2)8% (5)Vote
  • has kids
    3% (1)19% (5)10% (6)Vote
  • No job
    16% (5)0% (0)8% (5)Vote
  • other/please explain
    28% (9)33% (9)32% (18)Vote
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Most Helpful Guy

  • Light drug use is OK. Though I'd prefer she didnt.

    I dont care if she's a virgin, if she's willing to lose it.

    Has kids is a deal breaker.

    No job is not a deal breaker if she has some other source of income

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What Guys Said 13

  • E: Both of us can't have a penis, that's a deal breaker.

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  • I voted "E" because for me it would be dishonesty, but A and B are also on my "I'm not compatible with you" list.

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  • Being used if i notice a girl is starting to use me in a negative way then i will let her go and be done.

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  • 1. Drugs
    2. Bigotry
    3. an ex interfering all the time (kids can be the excuse for him/her)
    4. No job

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  • I'd say drugs. For everything else, I'd say having a definitive deal-breaker is a deal-breaker. XD

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  • There's the obvious "she's fat" dealbreaker for men, and then there's the "can't admit their own faults or acknowledge the ongoing need to grow as a person" thing which I selected 'Other' for.

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  • Unfaithfulness/cheating, but drugs/smokes is also a deal breaker along with bitchiness.

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  • Being dead. I insist that my partner be alive.

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  • Someone who isn't out of the closet yet and if they're religious

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  • I only like bi women

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  • Has kids forget that next

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  • disingenuity

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What Girls Said 12

  • Cheating/Impregnating other women while in a relationship with me.

    Seriously, i'm saving myself for marriage and if he can't wait, he's not for me!

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  • can't stand smokers, will never date one. Same with drugs. Dont want people with these types of problems around me. Also, a close 2nd is someone who can't keep a job... I have a problem with that too.

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  • having kids is a deal breaker
    not having enough time for me is a deal breaker
    having a low sex drive is a deal breaker

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  • Being narrow-minded/close-minded/ignorant.

    Being overly materialistic.

    Being sexually incompatible with me (being into completely different things than me, or having a significantly lower sex drive than me).

    Being dishonest and a hypocrite.

    Being on a completely different wavelength than me in terms of fundamental beliefs (social/political/ethical).

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  • Small mindedness.

    All the others are pretty situational.

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  • A, then C, then other, then D.

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  • Insincerity

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  • Obesity, hands down

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  • It's a tie between having/wanting children and being religious.

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  • Drugs, liar, won't commit, cheating, hypocrite, too much of a "mommas boy."

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  • Thinks sex is the center of the relationship

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  • Mine is B. But if they AREN'T a virgin it's a deal breaker.

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