So, I met this guy a few weeks ago and we really hit it off. He is pretty much everything i liked in a man. (For some reason, I love the over protective type)
Anyway. We got into a small fight. I pretty much made my point & then said "if all you wanted was sex, you could have told me. I'd be okay with just that."
He says no. He wants a relationship. With me. Then started talking about the makeup sex we so desperately need! Lord.
He gets upset if I assume its purely sexual, but the top of his discussion list is sex. Either way, I'm okay with and he knows it!
Tl;dr- met a guy. I'm okay with either involvement (sex or relationship). He says he wants it 'all'. Mainly talks about sex. Which do you think he wants? What he says. Or what he talks about?
He's coming over tonight for, and I quote, "Some awesome sex and cuddles all effing night!"
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I wouldn't write him off just yet as wanting only sex. Even though you guys are not together officially, it sounds a lot like you're in a 'honeymoon period', where sure, you get along great outside the bedroom but almost every time you see each other you have sex and if you don't, the sexual tension is through the roof.
I had that for the first 4 months after I got together with my boyfriend. He would cut class to come over and mess around with me, regardless of the fact that was the fourth day in a row we had slept together. We also had our fair share of disagreements a bit after that about what each of us really wants from the other, how much sex we're okay with for minimum/maximum, etc.. We patched things up, have been together for 7 months now and things are still unchanged in that almost every time we hang out, there's going to be sex.
Anyway, the point is, your guys still could really enjoy you as a person and wants more than sex. However, it's perfectly normal to have your hormones in overdrive in the beginning of any sort of sexual relations with someone. If sex was all he wanted and you made ti known that you're not cool with that, I'm sure he would move on to find someone more eager, and certainly wouldn't hang around for a few weeks!0