I've met numerous girls that love military guys but would never date one what's up with that?
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The fact that he could potentially get killed? He could get deployed unexpectedly, he could get his deployment extended, things like that. Just the uncertainty and the fact that you love them and you may never see them again, or won't be able to touch them for months at a time, or maybe never touch them again.
I know it's not right to think negatively but that's what you have to think about.
I think if my soulmate went into the military i would deal with it because i love him a lot but it would probably destroy me.1