So last week my boyfriend and I were arguing and he kept yelling at me so I just slapped him across the face. Then he just stood there looking at me and his jaw was all clenched. I felt so bad I just started crying and he then just grabbed me and hugged me and I told him I was sorry and he apologized too.
Everything has been fine and we have both moved on. And he has been sweet as always and I just can't believe I did that. I feel literally so bad. I feel like how does he know I love him if I just hit him. I know that he would never in a million years hit me.
I told all my friends how I feel and they think it's silly what a big deal I'm making about it. They all say a guy can take it and that guys sometimes deserve it.
I just really feel bad and want to make it up to him.
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He obviously moved passed this. He forgave you the moment he reached out to hug you. You apologized he apologized that's a good thing. Violence in any form isn't good but now that its over I suggest you not dwell on it. I'm sure he knows you love him, and he loves you. I've been slapped like that before similar situation. Only I didn't reach out to hug her, I walked away. She ran up to try and hug me and I told her to stay away from and that I would talk to her later. Next day we talked and it was fine. As long as its not something that becomes a habit I think he forgave you, now forgive yourself and continue with your relationship.2