Im slightly overweigh, 20kg (40pounds and Im 5'11) . I gained weight because I got bullied and depressed and while recovering from slight eating disorder...
I have never been in a relationship or more that hugged a guy to be honest.
In high school people said I was gross and lazy. ( After high school I lost weight, got eating disorder, gained weight again)
I've been on this site for a while and guys seem to hate fat and chubby girls. I dont know if I can ever be skinny, maybe normal. Im afraid of going too far again while losing weight
I dont want to be overweight. Im trying to loose wight now, I dont need advice for that. I know how to do that. I really want to be fit but would that make guys more interested? Is slight overweight disgusting to guys?
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I used to have very bad anorexia and I had a boyfriend at the time. I would constantly be asking if he thought I was fat (bearing in mind I looked like a bag of bones) and he would always say to me 'I love you Amy. I don't care if you're 30 pounds or 300 lbs). I met him being bigger, I was with him being smaller and although we're not together anymore I am best friends with him at a healthy weight.
What stops you from finding a guy who loves you is yourself, you're own insecurity, your own belief that no guy will want you and you don't deserve a guy to want you. That is what needs to be resolved, not your body itself. It's a lot easier said that done, I know because I've been there too, but don't let your insecurities overshadow the beautiful personality you have. A lot of guys won't mind a bit of extra weight, especially if you're trying to be healthy and fit :)2
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