we met Tinder & had been talking for a bit so we hung out at his house. It went great& he told me that he really liked me. things heated up, b4 anything could happen I told him i was a virgin & waiting for some1 i love. he got it& we just made out. He asked me y not go for it b/c it was going to be love evenutally. we ended up talking & opening up, which neither of us are good at. he told me that the virgin thing made him want me more b/c it would make him feel special, & he's bad with commitment. Later he asked me to sleep over, but he didn't want me to think that it was just about sex. so i slept over & nothing happened. when we woke up we started making out & then hooked up. he asked me if i was sure & didn't want me to regret it, i said i was sure as long as he was ok with being my first. he was. we hung out a little bit longer&then he took me home. an hour later he texted me. we talked for a few days after & he said he was feeling sick. we talked a little bit after & he just said he hasn't been on his phone much b/c he wasn't feeling good, which i understood b/c he isn't on his phone much in general & usually takes a while to text back. then i invited him to a birthday dinner my frined was throwing me & he said" hmm, i may want to go i have to think about it." I asked y he needed to think about it& he said he doesn't like meeting friends. we texted a few times after that & i offered to come over and take care of him. he said he didn't want me to see him like that. after this i text him a few times& get no reply, then the other day i asked him if he wanted to come over &and see my dogs because he had been begging to when we hung out & he said "D: you can't offer that when i'm working" so i said how about a day when you are not working. no reply. later i was getting annoyed w/ not getting an answer so i asked him how he felt about me. no reply. so i flat out told him that i like him& could he just tell me if he feels the same or not. no reply. Soo what do i do?
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I am supposing that you are in fact over 18 and there is no possibility of criminal statuatory rape here. Were you using a condom? A pregnancy would raise all sorts of issues and would rebound fiercely on the creep's life if you decided to have his baby without aborting the fetus. Women's rights in child support cases still prevails.
Consider this your loss of naivety and initiation into adulthood. You want nothing more with the psychopathic creep who stole something of intangible worth from you, so stop all communication with him. If you hear that he has been telling others he bonked you, strongly and emphatically deny it (after you've confirmed you are not pregnant); your well-being outweighs false morality. You might feel cheated and sad, but this feeling will pass after a few to several days. You have learned a valuable lesson about human nature worth much more than your virginity. You as well now know better how to choose male friends.
Only the worst sort of guys insist on virginity, the losers, and the notion of the virginal pure female is an illusion. Sophisticated males do not ponder such things as virginity. Such a person worthy of your charms remains in your future, you are now better prepared to recognize him when you meet him, and you are well on your way to your own personal growth and sophistication. Unpleasant things can bring unexpected rewards, and this event may be one of them.0