I'm gonna make this short and to the point :)
This girl told me she can't date right now and needs time to get better. She also told me she feels uncomfortable hanging with me because she doesn't want to develop feelings right now and stay single. This is NOT a lie by the way
A month later we got into a fight, and she threatened to tell me something i didn't wanna hear, i told her to go ahead. she said to me "Remember that friend i hung with? we did more then just hanging". i then confronted her on "oh what happened to not doing anything/hanging so you can stay single/not develop feelings? and she just told me to shut up and stop texting her
i then asked her "okay so did you mean what you said back then? was it an excuse? about wanting to stay single and not develop feelings? " and she replied "im gonna lie and say it was an excuse so you f**k off"
obviously i am gonna cut this girl out of my life, but it still bothers me whats going on. i feel i should ask her for closure/clarification but i ALSO wanted to ask GaG on if she played me or bluffed to make me mad? she once bluffed in the past too (said she got back with her ex-bf, but she made that up to get me mad) but I don't know what to think!!!
- playing you67% (2)0% (0)40% (2)Vote
- lied0% (0)50% (1)20% (1)Vote
- other (post what)33% (1)50% (1)40% (2)Vote
option B in the poll "lied" means she bluffed to make me angry
i will still ask her for closure tho
and she requires professional help before she can date again
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She may have been into you but wanted to keep it casual. Some girls dont want to get serious in a relationship because they enjoy their freedom. So she slept with someone else, who cares. It sounds like you were coming on pretty strong and that she didn't need that right now. Maybe she just wanted a friends with benefits thing and couldn't handle the stress a new relationship brings.0
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