My crush doesn't want to admit that we're dating. She keeps hesitating, and she needs more time.
Would it be counterproductive or disrespectful of me to try to force things along? For example, trying to keep touching her (hand, shoulders) to increase physical attraction? Or trying to make her give a date when we can start dating, like after graduation. Or asking her best friend to egg her on for me?
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Yes, extremely. You choosing to move faster than the pace she wants you to will only scare her and most likely push her away. My ex constantly tried to make our relationship more serious than it was, me being so young and knowing I had other things to work on, made me turn so anti commitment lol. Personally, I probably would've ended it a while ago if any guy started pressuring me into a relationship and telling me when we'd start dating.2