I've recently entered this conundrum with my boyfriend. We live about 50 miles apart, and it's a 45 minute drive to each other. We can't see each other more then either once week, or once every two weeks, because of work.
He is having trouble standing the distance between the two of us, and the time between when we hang out. He's used to seeing this his girlfriends daily, and I'm more used to seeing my boyfriends once or twice a week. If I do any more, I'm afraid I'll get too clingy.
If I lived with him, it would be different, and when I tried to. explain that to him yesterday, he told me enough already, mostly because I repeated myself.
He considers a 45 minute drive a long distance relationship, and he says that they NEVER work out for him.
I really care about him, and I don't. think distance should. ever matter.
What should I do in this situation, and should distance really matter?
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Distance should not matter. Where I live you go through our state in 45 minutes. I am not much of a driver. However if I truly care for that person I will drive. I believe a few people telling you it's something else. It just might be. If HE !! Truly!! CARES FOR YOU. He will travel and if he doesn't move on. You don't need to getting hurt. Good luck1