She never specified how long ago it was, and I didn't ask because I didn't want to intrude on her business.
So, I continued to pursue her. And now that I think about it, rather poorly.
So would you say it was wrong of me to do so even if I was looking for something real?
Because I'm pretty sure I messed up my chances with her. She never initiates a conversation and even when we hung out together, seemed distant.
I wish I could just hear her say that she wasn't interested, but I guess she doesn't want to hurt my feelings. And I don't want to ask her if she's interested because I don't want to come off as desperate or a creep.
However, I don't want to just drop it and give up.
This is so complicated.
Girls, how would you feel in this sort of situation?
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She could still be getting over the break up. Be there as a support system. Do fun things, and when you are having fun hanging out hopefully she will open up. If it seems like she is over him. Make your move! But if all she talks about is her ex, she clearly isn't over him, give her some time, and she will remember you for being there for her. I would say, if she ISN'T over him, give her a couple months (still continue to be friends with her) and then go for it.0