My boyfriend's best friend told me that my guy loves me and plans on telling me on our next date but I'm not ready to say it back yet? How should I respond without hurting his feelings? I have strong feelings for him and we've been dating for 3 months but I'm just not at the same level as him yet.
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You should describe your exact feelings. If he makes you feel safe, then say, "I feel really safe when I'm with you." If you respect and admire him, then you should say, "I feel lucky to have you." If he makes you feel good about yourself, then you should say, "I'm very happy to be with you." If you trust him fully, then you should say, "You're a good man, and I trust you."
If you feel all of those things, then you should say, "I love you" because that would be the truth. Don't say any of these things if you aren't prepared to be exclusive with him. That means that you must turn down any offer from any other man and not seek the attention of other men no matter what until after you have told him that you don't want to be with him anymore.
Someone said say that you love him but aren't in love. That is the absolute worst thing you could do.2
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