So woke up this morning In the arms of my fiancé. We cuddled all might long it was lovely and we woke up this morning and I said "I love you" while we were not facing each other just spooning and he replied with we have something so special etc. and I replied yes we do I love you and kissed his arm and it went silent for about 4 seconds and he said "my lovely Samantha" which is his exs name!!! We have been together for a solid year and half. No on and off business. He apparently hasn't seen her since they split up 3 or so years ago. Which is really weird. When we talk about her or any exes. He always refers to this Samantha as voldemort haha. So why not this time? After this happened I froze for a while and so did he and then I was like waaaa? And he went on about it being a mistake but u went to bathroom and cried and then left for a while because I was so mad. Now I don't know what to think or say or do. ?
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I'm not gonna make light of how uncomfortable it must have been to be called
another woman's name, while being in that romantic moment. However, the
brain is a very complext thing. You said you cuddled all night long, right?
Well, it could have been as simple as she was in a dream he had that night
and so she was on his mind in the morning. Or, she just randomly popped in
his head at that moment. Whatever the reason, it really does seem like a simple
mistake. He apologized for it and he hasn't seen her in 3yrs. So, I don't think it's
anything to be concerned about. I also think you should let it go altogether. Just
because he's already embarrassed by it and bringing it up again will just make it
worse. It happened and you can't change that. Now you just have to pretend like
it didn't happen. If it does happen again, though. Then you should talk to him about it.
Until then, let it go. Don't say anything. Just focus on what you two have and don't
worry about a little slip of the tongue. He is with you after all. Good luck.0