i met this guy online.. he's a catch.. he has his head on his shoulders for sure... we are attracted to eachother.. have fun things in common.. and he asked for an invite.. my problem is.. i am a carrier of the genital herpes virus (put ur raincoat on! dont trust too much! n no im not a dirty sl*t).. and i dont know if i should just tell him before we meet.. to save myself the pain of rejection.. because who knows maybe the physical connection will be so strong that we get hot n heavy the first night.. you never know.. and im not going to tell him right before we have sex.. so should i tell him before we meet and give him time to think about it.. or use self control n have him wondering why im "rejecting" him.. bc right now i kinda feel like im being fake.. not sayin who i really am.. i feel its important for him to know.. so BEFORE or AFTER we meet?
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I can't even believe you were so unsure about this you came on here to ask this question. The answer should be obvious. You NEED to tell him. I don't know if you were expecting anyone her to tell you not tell him. He'll respect you more and appreciate that you were honest with him. If you don't, well then, honestly that's extremely bitchy and vindictive if you're going to not tell this guy the truth for your selfish motives. Tell him the truth. It'll make you both feel better. And if he doesn't want to continue seeing you because of it, I mean, you can't blame him. But at least you won't feel horrible later because you didn't tell him.2