I live in a predominately white school district, yet somehow I only get black boys' attention, and they are the only ones that come up to me and tell me they like me & stuff. The boyfriend I have right now is white, and I initiated our relationship by asking for his number. Later on he told me he though I was really cute, but didn't want to approach me because he thought he'd never get a mixed race girl. Is this a thing? Why don't white guys ever approach me? I'm starting to take it personally -_-
P. S. I'm pretty sure I don't have a character defect :P
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For me, 99% of the time, no. That is mostly due to my previous dating experiences being mostly all caucasian.
Once a guy has dated for some years, they usually find some types to seem like a better match. If you lived in an area that had more mixed culture, then the guys would probably be more use to dating all different types. A person with a great personality is a great person. It doesn't matter. If the guys in your area are already used to mostly dating the available women in your area, they may certainly look at you as being different and not immediately make a connection that you are interested in dating.
In your age group, there will be more guys that don't have this pre-determined opinions about dating, because they haven't done it for years, so, hopefully it would easier to get their attention.0