I've been dating someone for the last year and he's made it clear that he's not sure we have a future. I've made it clear that I'm looking for marriage and a family. Am I stupid for waiting for him? Can I assume that it's never going to happen with him?
I'm turning down dates with really nice guys that I could have a future with potentially because I want him to want to be with me.
I don't want to date him and other people at the same time.
What do you guys think? Should I continue to wait for him and turn down other guys? Or end things with him?
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Yea, it is. You're only setting yourself up for heartbreak with that situation. I hate when women think they can miraculously change a man. He's told you he wants no future with you, yet you're holding on, waiting for what? While your're turning down potentially good guys who could have the same future goals as you. That behavior just seems really self destructive.0