To sum it up:
Knew this girl for 3 months. In the beginning she was totally into me and outright said she's looking for a long term thing right now. She's also done/said some stuff that suggests she was ONLY focused on me too
About half way into knowing her (month and a half) we got into a major fight but made up the next day. I still talked to her about if we're still "on" for dating or not, she kept saying "i dont know" or "maybe" and "stop pressuring me" which sounds weird and random right?
She then told me, she doesn't want to settle right now and wants to look around. I'm kinda heart broken but getting over it. I asked her if she's still interested in me or not, she assured me she still is though
Anyway what makes a girl go from only wanting YOU to now wanting to explore around?
- Found another guy while you were talking?Vote A
- Curiosity?Vote B
- other (post what)Vote C
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Well me personally, I've started to stop liking my current crush who likes me back... We went from it easy to make conversation with him to me worrying about what to say because he unintentionally makes me feel like an idiot by his remarks to what I say or something. And how we use to act around eachother has changed. I use to always be touchy flirty with him but now I feel like I have to force myself to do it and I wonder if he even wants me to anymore. I feel this tension.
Also, he is missing the essential qualities I need in a guy, like actually giving a dam about study and actually trying.
What I'm saying is when things stop being how they use to because of change in behaviors and things, it feels like the person is a different person and not the person you liked in the first place, meaning feelings can disappear unexpectedly :/ this is one possibility0
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