I dated a guy for months and we decided to still be friends, we had great dates and the chemistry was there all along but for some reason he pulled away and after a few weeks i had the courage to ask him why he wasn't showing interest anymore. He told me he isn't looking for anything serious because he doesn't have the time for it.
This was in april, and he did live in another town , he has now moved to my town and he just finished a five week travel in Asia, and he did travel a lot because of school organization etc. He also got of a really long relationship last year.
So why am i stll dwelling on him? I feel like he didn't think i was worthy enough.. even though he was the one who was so into me and wanted to date me etc. I was very careless to begin with,
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Now that 'He has now moved to my town,' it's drumming up old memories, it's getting you thinking, and Perhaps has even occurred to you----Maybe I could give it One more shot.
I believe it is Bothering you about how things ended, and Feeling the way You do, you never found closure with someone who 'Pulled away' because he didn't want anything heavy, due to a "Really long relationship last year.'
You're never going to Stop 'Dwelling on him' unless you Contact him and ask him cheerily, nonchalantly, if he would like to hang out sometime? Make a fresh start, Don't be 'Very careless this time,' and tell him that being he is living in the same town as you, maybe it would be Great for old friends to get together and catch up.
See what he says. It's either going to be a Yay or a Nay or a 'Polite pulling away,' but at least you would have Some peace of mind to find out if it was 'Worthy enough' to have Continued. Find out just 'How much time' he has now...
No, I don't believe it had anything to do with you being 'Worthy enough,' it was just a Question that he was growing Cold duck feet and didn't want to be hooked at the hip again so soon after being birds of a feather with another.
It's just a shot in the dark, of course, but something I believe you Might be flapping your wings over now that he's a stone's throw.
Good luck. xx0