I have a fiance back home but just recently she has told me she had sex with another guy about 2 years ago when we had a short breakup. Obviously she was not in the wrong but now I have in the back of my mind that she is gonna cheat on me while I am here. What are some waysI cannmake sure she stays with me?
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Brother, as a veteran let me first thank you for your service. Other than that, c'mon now, you are a active duty and I know you have heard, many times over, all about "Dear John" letters from relationships at home.
You have to realize that statements of that magnitude made after such a long time period are rarely (if ever) done so out of the blue and always come attached with an overriding reasoning. My point is, you have to ask yourself why she decided to tell you now while you are in a warzone. To me, the answer is fairly clear and I truly suggest you look at the overall picture here and what would have led her to reveal such a thing at this exact moment.
Regardless of what happens, you keep your head straight over there and focus on the job. Your life is more important than potential relationship issues even though they may feel like the end of the world. You keep your shit together.1