I rarely get asked out--but I'm told that I'm "really pretty", and have a really beautiful smile, and I've been asked to work at abercrombie as well as hollister and have been scouted by a couple modelling agencies. I kickbox to stay fit, play tennis, do archery, go jogging, eat clean and healthy, have long light brown hair. I don't look muscular and I'm thin.
One guy I met would keep looking at me for a minute straight without breaking eye contact--and then he would look away and down at the floor and looked sad? He also put his arm around me while taking a group picture and stand really close to me. Usually guys won't approach me unless I approach them first and start talking to them. Then after that, they will sometimes approach me. Why is that? And how do I get a guy to ask me out?
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The main reason is fear. Fear of rejection.
There can be many causes of that fear. Like, she's super hot so he can't believe she's single or would be interested in him. Or she is always with another guy (and he can't just be her friend, can he?)
It doesn't always have to be that he doesn't think much of himself. Sometimes he just thinks too much of her.
Sometimes he thinks she is dating someone else, and a guy won't ever break up a couple just to get to the girl.
Sometimes it's that he knows something about her, which makes her unsuitable. Some guys will only date virgins. Some guys will only date religious girls of the same faith. That sort of thing.
Lastly, it can also happen that guys flirt with the girl, and she is non-responsive or negatively-responsive and so he decides she is signalling her lack of interest, so he backs off and loses interest himself.0