Yeah, this has been discussed several times before but I'd like to get some insight here.
Going by the current trends, it seems like a gentleman has no chance of gaining a woman's affection because he will be mercilessly friendzoned. On the other hand, girls usually swoon over a thorough asshole who doesn't have an ounce of respect for women.
This has got nothing to with with confidence or good men being 'boring' (as is commonly perceived). Even if a man is the most confident/interesting man on earth but he isn't an asshole, he's going to end up in the friendzone.
I'm sure everyone knows about this common saying "Every woman wants a bad man who is only good to her, and every man wants a good woman who is only bad to him".
So, what do you people feel? I welcome answers from both genders. But please be honest here, because there is no point in concealing what you ACTUALLY think. Go anonymous if you want to, but just be honest. I have seen a lot of women on this site (and many men too) say that not all women go for assholes, but in the real world that's PRECISELY what's happening.
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Not really. The "complete assholes" that you mentioned have something going for them to have girls be attracted to them, like their alpha male persona. Girls don't like guys just for the fact that they are assholes. It's usually because they happen to be either better looking, tall, stronger, or just a straight alpha male. Most guys don't mind bitches as long as she's really hot and/or has really nice tits and ass.0