Ok, so I've noticed from my own experience that Indian guys (or any South Asian for that matter) seems to constantly have stereotypes working against him when looking for a relationship. I've heard things from they stink, to they're all nerds, to they're not attractive in anyway, among other stigmas.
Personally I don't think any of this is true. I mean, yes, I'm geeky to a degree, but I'm not like constantly on RPGs day and night or dressing up to go to every comic con on the planet. As for the other two things, many South Asians take very good care of themselves both physically and in terms of hygiene.
I know there may be other reasons but I hear these three the most. Also, I've been told in several occasions, "I'd date you but you're Indian and I don't date Indians." Does anyone have an explanation for this behavior?
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Well I'm assuming you're in america or some other western county and as diverse as it is here there are still big problems with prejudice. For the negative stereo types of indian guys ( i don't See how being a geek is Negative) a lot comes from the media but also remember stereotypes come from somewhere.
india is a patriarchal country with lots of archaic laws about women an there rights, there is a high volume of rapes and violence committed against women this would definitely affect they way in which western women would see men from india as a whole and make them hesitant to date some one of that culture is it right to generalize everyone of course not but my advice is to date more open minded girls and be more open minded about who you date yourself or date women of your culture they are more likely to know where you are coming from and understand cultural mores I'm assuming you get this mostly from girls of european decent i can't really imagine many indian girls saying this to you1