I am a total band geek and was wondering how do I get a girlfriend. No girls really like me in that way cause I am a total nerd. Are there any tips I can do to make myself more, i guess attractive in a way?
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Nerds can get girls just as any guy can. It's all about having confidence. Sure, you might want to have reasonable expectations as to what kind of girls you should go for, but even can be bad advice. Who you may think is the hottest girl you've ever seen just might be waiting for a gentleman like yourself to provide a stimulating conversation.
And yes, a conversation is all you need. Forget pickup lines. Forget confessing your undying love out of nowhere. Just have a conversation. That's how two people get to know each other, and with potential love interests the method is no different.
The rest is hinges on confidence. Know who you are, what you want, and make it happen.
Don't label yourself a band nerd. You're a guy with interesting hobbies. You can read sheet music. That's cool. Music is something you can talk about for days. You have a passion, so utilize in a positive way rather than wearing it in shame. You'll be fine.1