There is a girl I asked out about a year ago. She had just gotten out a bad relationship. At least, I think it was a bad relationship as she complained about her boyfriend constantly. She turned me down, nicely, for a date, and got back with her then ex-boyfriend. The one I mentioned above that she complained about all the time.
A year after that she is single again, and is showing interest.
I don't know if I want to date her now. I feel like she had her chance a year ago when I asked her out the first time. Though, it could just be my hurt pride. As nice as she tried to let me down, I still haven't dated since. Hurt pride is a stupid reason not to date someone in my opinion.
Still, I can't shake the feeling that she thought/thinks she can back pocket a long-term guy (me) so she can sleep around with the bad boys (her ex). Once she has sated her sexual appetite, come back to to the long-term guy later once she is ready for a long term relationship. I was ready a year ago, and its not like I was waiting for marriage!
She went back to the bad boy knowing how I felt about her. Its a a big stretch, but I feel like I was cheated on.
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If you have any self-respect, you wouldn't date her. There are so many girls who use guys like you to settle with after having fun with all the other guys before. Do you really wanna be like one of those clowns? Because these are the types of girls who are most likely to divorce you if you somehow run into a financial crisis later in your life. Show her that she missed out on earlier and don't worry, you'll get over her even if you can't control your feelings. As cheesy as this sounds, there are plenty of fish in the sea.2