So I met a guy in like April, and we clicked and started to date on May but the thing is I was dealing with depression and self esteem, and we had an on and off break up, me being the breaker he got angry with me but in the end we dated then broke it off again, by me... Do you think he'll give me another chance? I really like him, and I don't want to loose him :( help pleasee!
Do you think there's still a chance for him and me to get back?
What Guys Said 5
If you get back together with him, the relationship is 100% to fail.
The reason is because you have not dealt with the problem that caused the breakup in the first place. Each time you break up and get back together, the relationship erodes more and more. You are not thinking in a manner that will solve your problem. Simply getting back together does not solve anything. It only addresses the symptom of the problem without tackling the cause.
While many people with depression and self-esteem issues have successful relationships, your issues are actually causing you to push him away. Until you work those issues out yourself, any relationship you have will likely end up in the toilet.1
If this lost lover of yours plays video games, I'd say buy him a popular game for one of his consoles. Put the game and a picture of you and a disc containing the song baby come back in a gifted package. Present it to him with a hug. If he still has feelings and you give him new found hope, I still see potential for him to come back.0
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IN MY POINT OF VIEW GIVING SECOND CHANCE IS GOOD. IF YOU DON'T WANT TO LOOSE HIM GET HIM, GIVE THE SECOND CHANCE ESHKA. BUT, BUT ITS YOUR LIFE YOU MAKE THE DECISION DONT RELAY ON OTHERS ANSWERS, BUT RELAY ON OTHERS IDEAS...0
dont tell us tell him that !0
What Girls Said 2
if you've broken up with this guy twice, it doesn't sound like you are ready for a boyfriend emotionally. even if the breaking up was because of your depression, you aren't ready to have a boyfriend and deal with all the emotions that come with that. you have to keep in mind his feelings too.
it depends on the guy really in answer to your question.1
Babe, on to bigger and better things.0
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