relationships and marriages since it basically goes against their beliefs?
I've met this Jewish woman through my friend's kickback at his house just several months ago and she seems interested in me romantically when we were getting to know each other more and as a Latino (Mexican-American) catholic male, I honestly would never expect a White Jewish woman to have some romantic interest in me in my lifetime. Being that I'm Latino, since I'm more used to thick and voluptuous women (which are sort of my preference), I used to think there's not a lot of thick and voluptuous Jewish women until I've met this Jewish woman.
Anyways, I don't know if she's a traditional/orthodox-type of Jew or not. Probably not since she came into my friend's house for a kickback, smoking a couple of hookah pens. I'm still friends with her and chat with her socially through text message or Facebook but I just felt that there's no point to trying and interfaithfully have a relationship, since it might be a red flag to her family that I am a Catholic/Christian. Idk, what do you guys think of my current decision?
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Well, she's definitely not Orthodox, I'll give you that! She may be traditional, but she is most likely reformed. Although it seems like a weird cultural mix, if you both like each other it shouldn't be a problem. Don't let those types of barriers get in the way. Sure, her parents may want her to find a nice Jewish man, (I get that from my papa all the time) sometimes it just doesn't happen that way. My parents had to deal with this. My mother is 100% Jewish and my father was not. My papa (grandfather) didn't talk to them for years, but then he finally came around. I think it's worth pursuing. Sure in the long run if you guys are serious enough to marry and have children, the whole religious thing might get a little bumpy, but If you both end up loving each other it will be worked out. Just know, it will be a lot of trouble, but if you can't get her out of your head, go for it!0