I really am stuck because I really want to tell him how I feel but I'm not sure how, I'm also terrified of rejection. I just think if he knew how I really felt he would understand that I really do truly care only for him.
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If you lay everyone on the table all at once, then you could scare him off, since guys aren't used to girls doing that kind of thing.
Instead of doing that, use small gestures to indicate romantic interest. For example, sit down next to him and then let him see you scoot your chair over toward him a little bit. If you want to look at something he's looking at, try to put your hand on his shoulder. Just drop hints here and there. It may take him a while to figure out that your small actions are hinting at romantic interest.
When he realizes that you are hinting at that, he will decide on whether he wants to pursue you. If he decides not to, then he will let you down gently. If he decides to pursue, then he could try to do this in one of two ways. He could try to rush in for a kiss. If he tries that, pull your head back so he does not succeed. Use a kind and flirty voice to say something like, "Nuh-uh! You've got to take me out on dates like a lady!"
Do not let him have any affection of any kind until he has taken you out on dates and asked you to be his girlfriend. At that point, you can start getting affectionate, but still hold off on sexual activities for at least six months. Make him prove that he is committed to having a long-term relationship with you before you consider putting sexual activities on the table. This way, if he was not all that serious about a relationship and was just trying to get an easy lay, he will fail, but if he is serious about a relationship, then you can then decide to do whatever you want with him (assuming that he consents, of course).
Hope this helps :)2