I am not trying to start a hostile discussion between the sexes on here (so if your just going to try to start that, please don't comment). My questions is: Why is it generally accepted that a girl can say that she doesn't want to date a short guy but it is totally unacceptable for a guy to say he doesn't want to date a fat girl?
Instantly rejecting someone for something that they can not change (height) is, in my opinion, worse than rejecting someone for something they have control over (weight), barring medical reasons.
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Both are acceptable IMO. People are free to date whomever they want, even if I personally think height and weight ALONE are poor reasons to reject someone. That said, in my experience, both are also not as set in stone as one might think, for example, a girl might date a short man who projects confidence and dominance despite being short. And a man might date a somewhat weighty woman if she still looks healthy and confident and like she takes care of herself.4