One aspect of a healthy relationship is where one side does not cheat on the other. As you all most likely know, both sides need to trust one another in order for the relationship to work out.
My concern here is about the women cheating. Although some may not realize it, women can get a man very easily and it is that notion that scares me a little bit. So if i'm not the best guy out there, which i'm obviously not (how could anyone expect to be), how do i know she won't simply cheat or leave in any case? Are there any good signs that will indicate a trustworthy girl?
Now personally, I have not dated anyone so I would like to hear some of your opinions/experience.
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I give trust as soon as a commitment is made. However, once it is lost then I will quickly walk away.
Trust usually has to be earned through many challenges in my friendships.
In my relationships I will not commit until a woman has earned my trust to begin with. Compatibility and her having her own mind and voice is important. Trust goes both ways.
I would suggest to you that you don't commit until you communicate at some level with a woman and build that trust up.
Sex is quite cheap in modern society and people sleep together without building trust at all. You want to try and push sex back a little bit longer to build the trust up. Once you feel you can trust the woman you commit. If she breaks the trust then she the commitment is broken. I have no time for cheaters. I wouldn't cheat and I expect them not to cheat. I am not the forgive and forget sort once a commitment is made.2