Alright, so right now my girlfriend (let's just call her that) are somewhere between dating and in a relationship. We've been together only for a month now so this is a new relationship.
Well, here's my dilema. She's a big time studier, or so she tells me. She studies literally every day and it has increased even more recently because of the upcoming Finals exam. This has dramatically interferred with how often we make plans to see each other. We see each other on average about once every 2 weeks because of this along with her job. However, I never let it bother me too much, because I understand her reasons.
Now, something has changed recently. Out of nowhere, she stops texting me. She doesn't respond to any of my texts and this goes on for 7 days, (note that after awhile I became worried something may have happened to her, but had no way of knowing) until one night I call her and after the call goes unanswered, she texts me saying "Sorry, will text you after Final...".
I'm starting to feel like she doesn't have time for me, nor for anyone at that matter. We both really like each other, but this is a new relationship and I'm not liking how things are starting off. Do I have a right to be concerned about this? Am I being too needy for her time? Let me know what you guys think. Any advice would be appreciated.
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You have a right to be concerned because you don't want to put in all your effort in a fairly new relationship when she doesn't even have the time to text you... and I can understand if she didn't text you for a day or two cause she needed space but a week is a long time. Personally if I was in that situation I probably would try to explain to her that if she is going to be in a relationship with you that she needs to find a balance for hanginout and studying... Yes studying should always come first but she needs to be putting in the effort to see you and talk to you and if that doesn't work I would end it cause your going to be wasting your time when you could be with someone who has time to see you and puts the same amount of effort as you do
my opinion and I'm not saying your gnna going to do this but I feel when situations like this happen it ends up leading to cheating or flirting with other people
It is early enough where if you did end it it wouldn't be as bad as if you guys were dating for 6 months! Hope this helps!1