What are your opinions in public demonstrations of love?
When I'm dating someone I hate it when that person holds my hands on the street near people, because I feel like that gesture is like putting a string on me and saying to everyone "she's mine, back off".
Holding hands, giving kisses, hugging... do you like to do that with your bf/gf on public, like in college, coffee shop, street?
When I try to explain what I feel about, for example holding hands, to a guy he does not understand me and starts saying that it means I don't love him. That's not true. I just don't like to lose my personality. What if our relationship doesn't result, then every single guy that once saw me holding hands and kissing him will associate me to him and will never start any conversation with me. I think that I can show my love to that person in many other ways, like I know that any person that looks at the way I move, the way I smile and the way I look at my bf shows instantly what I feel about him, I don't think I have to actually demonstrate it THAT much in public situations, I don't think it's classy.
- Who does that should get a roomVote A
- I can't see any problem, I do that all the timeVote B
- Just hold hands sometimesVote C
Most Helpful Girl
I think PDA can easily become childish. Holding hands is not an issue, but anything more than a half second kiss is too much. It's alright to not want to hold hands but your reasoning is a little off.
Hot tip: When you're walking with your boyfriend, you really shouldn't concern yourself with future potential partners.
A) Random people don't just remember who you are, or what you were doing when they first saw you. I promise
B) You should really be all about your boyfriend in that regard when you have a boyfriend.1