Well, I just need to let this out. I was crushing on a girl and she didn't feel the same so our friendship will more than likely drift apart. This has happened to be before and its been getting me down. I think I may have too high of standards, always seems to be very attractive girls that do this to me, but they are good friends and sweet and make me feel like the bad guy for not wanting to be just "long term friends". I want a relationship with love and marriage kids and all that good stuff, its just so hard for a shyguy like me to find.
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You have to know what your ultimate goal is... You say that you want marriage and kids but you also say you go for hot girls.
First, hot girls love nice guys because hot girls are hot because they eat attention. If we don't get enough attention our hotness starts to decay so we need nice guys like you to like us and give us attention and tell us we're nice and pretty. .. ok that's over dramatic but you get the idea.
As far as being friends NO NO NO being friends is for your early 20s until you realize its bs. As long as you're kind and honest there's nothing wrong with not being just friends and walking away to find that wife of yours.
Ok more to why this is a little your fault. .. You want wife n kids yes? Then why do you waste your time with girls that don't want that. hot girls are always great to look at and sometimes great to marry but don't waste your time with ones that don't like you. Move on. Instead of first looking for a hot girl, look for a wife that will be a good mother and you're attracted to. Maybe she'll like you back1