I have a huge problem. tons of girls look at me everyday many stare smile etc but once I start talking they all either become friends or lose interest altogether. my last girlfriend was a long time ago and she dumped me cause I was boring as hell. I don't seem to understand what I'm doing wrong. what do girls think is a good topic to talk about?
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By talk to them, do you mean holding long, meaningful dialogue before or after the first date?
When you approach a girl, at that juncture, making her comfortable with you to get her number should be your primary objective. And if she is into you, much convincing is not needed. Small talk ensues the introduction, and then you get to the point without deviating. I don't know, that should take place over, say, a few minutes or so. That's it.
Prior to the date, communication with her should be short yet informative. Call her to make plans to go on a date, then call her to confirm on the day of, which gives you more to talk about on the date.
With that being said, you do not necessarily have to be passionate about any one thing in particular to be considered interesting to women. You do need to be aware of, nonetheless, how to be spontaneous and how to show a girl a good time. Simple, right? Take her to different places and experience new things often with her, and get her to smile and laugh when she is with you, the usual.
Lets face it, in many cases, many guys appear to drop many of their hobbies when they become serious with someone. At that point, it's all about coupledom. So, as I said, you do not necessarily have to be passionate about hobbies and such to be interesting to women. It's really about how you make them feel1