For example, if she gets better grades then you,
Do you see it as an opportunity to have her help you or do you become afraid that she will think lowly of you?
Why and why not?
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It depends on her attitude. No one wants to date a snob. I don't really consider people smarter just because they make good grades. I went to school with straight A students, that were so dumb they couldn't answer, opinion questions. They only knew how to memorize, and not think for themselves at all. If they weren't given an answer, then they were unable to form an opinion of their own. That is just pathetic.
The fact is there are many kinds of intelligence, and the way we commonly measure intelligence, which is grading a persons capacity for memorization, doesn't impress me. Problem solving, communication, conflict resolution, the capacity for empathy, are all abilities of the mind, that schools are not teaching or testing properly, and are all far more important to me, than if a girl can memorize the date of some pointless battle that happened hundreds of years ago.3