well, my gf and I always break up because of me having so many girls in my life. i'm her first love so I get why she always been attached to me. i can't stop talking to other girls yet i love her so much and when i'm with her i know that i'm happy. but i can't do what she wants she always asked me to remove a girl on insta she doesn't like so ended up blocking my girl just to stop her from seeing who I have, i can't put her at the top of my list but I LOVE HER. now she told me, you can have girls as much as you want, talk to them hang with them , u can even sleep with them I won't be mad at all, I'm with u but won't ask u to do anything for me, just live ur life the way u want..
should I be worried?
what does she really mean with all this?
i know 100% she doesn't have anyone else but me but it doesn't feel right that she says she won't get jealous anymore..
whats wrong with my girl? I can't talk to her about all this just said OK , i'm not really the kind of guy who talks to her about how i feel.
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Before I give my advice, I need to clarify what you mean by "so many girls in
your life". Do you mean girls, as in friends that you have or do you mean girls
as in you flirt with them and are keeping your options open, which one?
If there just chick friends, then she can't expect you to ditch your friends
just because they're girls.
If there women your flirting with and making romantic connections with, while
you claim to be in love with her. Then I can understand why she's mad.
You can't really love her, if you're stilling playing the field. It doesn't work
As far as your girlfriend is concerned. I could possibly believe that she realized
woman are always gonna be apart of your life, if she just said you could
talk and hang out with them. However, the fact that she gave you a green
light to sleep with other woman is a big red flag. NO woman (unless they're
into open relationships) would ever give her man a green light to sleep with
other women. That's just never gonna happen. The fact that it did probably means
she was hoping to get some kind of a reaction from you. Or possibly a set
up, so that if you do sleep with another woman. She could say you cheated on her
and break up with you once and for all (because, if she had the will power to
do so. She wouldn't keep agreeing to get back with you). Honestly though,
she's the only one who knows her intentions behind that. And, you'll only find out
what they are if you ask her about it. So, I suggest you do that.
I also think you two need to decide if you're staying together, is a good thing
or not. Love is not breaking up and getting back together all the time. It's a
black hole of a relationship that keeps sucking you both back in and neither
of you know how to get out of. But, it's not health for either of you. So, maybe it's
time some serious choices be made.
Good luck with you and your girlfriend (whatever you choose to do).0