So i have been "talking" to this guy for about 3 months now. When we first started talking he said he liked me but didn't want a relationship. I let it go let him take my virginity. He texts me everyday, hangs out with me almost everynight, lets me sleep at his house and so on. 3 months later he tells me he still doesn't want a relationship even though i would say we basically are one. I assumed he was using me but he insists he's not. He wants to do threesomes and everything a couple would do. What are reasons that he won't commit? There is a bit of an age difference (11YRS) and i think that might be stopping him but im not sure. I feel used and not important enough to him. Should i wait until he's ready? If so how long. Or should i move on with my life and find someone who wants the same things i do. PLEASE HELP.
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GIRL STORY OF MY LIFE! 8 months later and I was still "the girl he was seeing", i even had aquaintances who were part of his social circle him ask me what was up. It caused me a lot of pain, the fact that he didn't want me to mean more just tore me apart because he meant everything to me. I cut it off because I couldnt take it anymore but he won me back...3 times, and each time was no different than before. So I say move on with your life, the first time you try to move on you might actually end up going back, but at least you know you can try. I cried over that guy for a year, dont be me0