Lets dive right in. About 2 weeks ago, a girl messaged me on a dating site. I hadn't thought about dating for some time and this was a pleasant suprise. She seemed nice, so i replied to her message. Het profile pick was quite blurry and I could really see her all that well.
After a few days, she added me on Facebook and I saw some decent pixtures of her for the first time. I will probably sound like an shallow asshole, but I didn't find het that attractive. This is just a feeling I had. Yet, she seemed really into me and I thought she was fun to chat with, so we planned a date.
The date went pretty well. Yet, at the end of it, I still wasn't sure what I really wanted. During the date, I got the feeling she really really liked me. I have never really experienced this. I have never had a gf or even kissed a girl dor that matter.
The thing now is, I am afraid I am stepping into something with the wrong intentions. This girl isn't someone I see myself ending up with, but I dont think that alone is enough to stop things with her. I think I am interested in her, because she is interested in me and I want to know what thst is like when things get a bit more seriousm is this a bad idea? What do you think?
If you want me to elaborate, ask right ahead!
Most Helpful Girl
No point in carrying on. You're not doing her any favours here. In fact, the more you prolong this, the more time will go that SHE isn't finding a guy that will like her a bit more. If the chemistry isn't there and you just aren't in to this, then it's not going to get better with time. Don't worry about breaking her heart, because how she reacts to what you do is her business, not yours. Take care of yourself and find a better girl for you, and likewise, let her find a better guy for her.2
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