So I was out at this party and unusually decided to let loose with the help of a few drinks.
This girl notices me and comes to talk to me. I somehow manage to fake being flirty, confident and charming enough for her to like me and arrange a date with her.
The problem is that I'm neither any of those things. I'm one of the most introverted and shy people you could meet.
I fear that on the date she will see who I really am due to a false first impression. What to do?
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I am like you. However, I learned how to be that way without drinks. It is an act for sure, but it certainly helps socializing. Sometimes if I have to meet a group of new people, I use some drinks to make it easier (as it is still tough when dealing with lots of people). Just because you are introverted by nature doesn't mean you have to be limited by it. The fact you have the ability to break out of it when drinking means that to some extent being a little more extroverted exists inside you. Just learn how to use it.0