I've recently (2 days now) have been broken up. Obviously when your in trouble you rely on friends to comfort you. I only have one really good friend and he's my guy friend.
We've been friends for like 10 years now, I've always wondered if I've been making the wrong decision not dating him. But I don't want to ruin our friendship.
But at the same time if friendship is stopping me from being with the right guy it kinda sucks...
I can see us being romantic together but mostly relationships aren't just hugs and kisses and cuddles... Being sexual together might be awkward
I don't really know what I'm asking or trying to say here... But hoping you lovely people can help me out
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Only and IF ONLY I thought he was the one. My intuition is usually correct and every now and then, it is very rare, but once in a while my intuition will tell me that I belong next to someone. Whether it's a friend, a bypasser, or potential boyfriend. I would have to have that feeling that us being together could result in an amazing, delightful love story. Otherwise I'm not risking a friendship for someone to date -_-
As I've gotten older, I've realized most people you date are nothing more and nothing less than momentary lessons in the grand scheme of things. That's pretty sad if there was actually a wonderful connection there that became momentary. Especially with this culture that encourages viewing sex as a play thing when reality: sex will ALWAYS complicate a connection. Sex, in all of it's glory, can have the potential to entirely smother the future of a connection. I've seen it happen with so many different people in so many different ways. To me, it's just not worth it. Good friends are golden and I'm not going to jeopardize that for an experience that I can probably get elsewhere.0